I will admit I have let myself go. I don’t mean in the personal hygiene department. I still shower and floss regularly. Well, maybe not totally regularly.
What I mean is that I have let myself go in the weight category and have gained some serious pounds. My friends tell me “it’s happy weight” in that I have gained weight since I got married because I’m living in such marital bliss.
This suggests that happiness requires me to fill my stomach with carbs. Wait…it kind of does.
I don’t care if it’s “happy weight” or not, the result is the same: pants that dig into my stomach and a flirtation with the plus size area of the mall.
Interestingly, this area is strategically located next to an Auntie Anne’s.
In an effort to shed this “happy weight”, which does anything but make me happy, I’ve recently started working out with a personal trainer. I see him twice a week where he tortures me and makes me regret every single delicious thing I’ve eaten.
I kind of think he enjoys watching me suffer. I share this training experience with two of my closest friends: Downtown Christy Brown and Pajama Jeans (not their real names).
After tonight’s horrendous workout, Downtown Christy Brown (DTCB) and I headed to our favorite place…Chipotle.
Pajama Jeans was out of town, and since she’s the fittest of the three of us, I think Marbi was irritated he was left with the two “chunky girls” so he worked us extra hard.
We decided to celebrate our good workout with salads from Chipotle. I figured I would sit next to someone eating a burrito and ask them if I could just smell it.
We grabbed our salads and headed outside to discuss our workout regimen and the various ways we wanted Marbi to suffer.
At first, we felt bad about ourselves, but the more we got to talking about it, we realized being the fattest person at the gym is actually a pretty good thing. In fact, it’s amazing!
So here are a few reasons why DTCB and I think it’s best to be the fattest person at the gym.
1. Everyone has low expectations of you
The fact you showed up and used the gym membership you’ve been paying for is good enough for the regular gym-goers.
They don’t expect much from you, so any type of exercise is impressive to the hard bodies and their judging eyes.
2. People automatically look out for you
Seriously. What gym puts steps to the entrance? My gym does.
I’ve found fit people keep an eye on me as the fattest person in the gym to make sure I don’t hurt myself or pass out from overexertion.
Passing out would most likely occur before the workout started, as those lockers are difficult to open.
It’s nice to know that if I had a heart attack, or passed out from lack of oxygen, the fit people at the gym would know it and take care of it immediately.
3. People will give up a machine for you
When all machines are full, there’s always someone in great shape willing to sacrifice a machine just to give you a chance at a little bit of a workout.
Granted, they may be giving up the machine because they know there’s no way you will use the machine for more than five minutes without experiencing heart palpitations.
Whatever. Chivalry is not dead at the gym when you’re the fattest one there.
4. You can stare at the good looking people and they won’t notice it
My gym is comprised of old people and the junior high track team, so unless you have a fetish, there isn’t much to look at where I go.
But, if you are the fattest person at a gym with people who haven’t yet hit menopause, you’re in luck! You can stare at the best looking people at the gym and you won’t be “that creepy person” or “the one I had to get the restraining order from.”
The good looking people with the rocking abs are just happy you’re at the gym, and are hoping you are looking to them for inspiration, or a tutorial on how to use the equipment.
It’s a free pass!
5. The gym gives you free water
Maybe it’s because I look like I’m going to pass out, and the gym wants to avoid a lawsuit, but more than once I’ve been offered a water “because you look like you need it.”
Score. My dehydration finally pays off!
6. You get more personal space in the classes
Sometimes the aerobics and Zumba classes can get a bit full and space is limited in the room. But, as the fattest person in the class, you can get just a little extra room on the workout floor.
This is definitely the case with me. Maybe it’s because people are worried I will pass out and fall on them as I head to the ground, or maybe they just don’t want to hear my panting and cursing under the breath.
I don’t care why no one wants to stand close to me, I’m just glad for the extra space. Personally, I think it’s just because no one wants to stand by the fat girl.
7. You get a “complimentary” sweat towel
Because I love free stuff, I’m especially happy about this perk. At my gym, if you want a sweat towel you have to pay for it. But, when you’re the fattest person at the gym, they give you one for free.
I think it’s because I sweat profusely all over the weight machine after only three reps of five pounds, and they don’t want my fatty perspiration all over the machine.
Maybe they’re afraid my love of cheeseburgers is contagious and can be contracted through my sweat.
I don’t care why I get the towel. A free towel is a free towel, and it saves me from bringing my own, which means less laundry for this girl.
8. Everyone around you is attractive and easy on the eyes
Although this may sound like the kind of thing that would send someone running (or driving) to Dairy Queen for a large Blizzard, it’s actually a good thing.
It means that every single person that you see at the gym has a good body and looks better than you. No one wants to look at the fat person…and you don’t have to…because that fat person is you!
The thin people are the suckers because they have to watch your fat jiggle on the treadmill for the five minutes you’re on it. They’re the ones who have to cleanse their eyes after a workout…not you.
So there you have it fatties: All the reasons why being the fattest person at the gym isn’t so bad. I know I feel better about it.
So go have a Hostess 100 calorie pack (or three) and know that although your pants might not fit and you might have a permanent wedgie, you have it made at the gym!